Episode 18
Thought Leadership through Summit Speaking with Carol Cox
Thought leadership is NOT the same thing as being an influencer or expert. Did you know that? I didn't! At least, not until I heard Carol explain the differences on this episode. If you want to build your thought leadership through summit speaking (or speaking in general), this episode is for YOU.
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Summit:Today, you're going to hear from Carol Cox, the amazing
Summit:founder of Speaking Your Brand.
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Summit:gives some really helpful examples that will help you envision what
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Carol Cox:We're going to talk today about how to establish your thought leadership
Carol Cox:through summit speaking - and really this applies to any type of speaking
Carol Cox:that you do, not just for summits.
Carol Cox:We know, especially with the pandemic having gone on now for over a year
Carol Cox:and a half, that we're all Zoomed out.
Carol Cox:Zoom fatigue.
Carol Cox:We've been to so many webinars, so many virtual presentations, that you
Carol Cox:need to stand out with the content and delivery that you're presenting.
Carol Cox:So what you want to hear when you're doing your summit speaking, or when
Carol Cox:you're doing speaking in general, is feedback and testimonials.
Carol Cox:And so here's an example from our own summits that we hosted earlier this year
Carol Cox:and in 2020, where this is the kind of feedback that we got from attendees as
Carol Cox:well, they raved that it was the best virtual event that they've ever attended.
Carol Cox:The presentations were incredible.
Carol Cox:The diversity of the voices, it was very much appreciated, and they really
Carol Cox:could see the quality of what went on.
Carol Cox:So that's definitely what the type of feedback that you want to get.
Carol Cox:And there's a way to get this type of feedback.
Carol Cox:And we're going to talk about that here in this presentation.
Carol Cox:So really what makes the difference?
Carol Cox:And so this is what doesn't make the difference.
Carol Cox:I found this online because I was looking for memes that had to do
Carol Cox:with not wanting to give an opinion.
Carol Cox:So I feel like what holds so many of us back from really taking our presentations
Carol Cox:and taking our speaking to the next level is that we're so afraid of having an
Carol Cox:opinion about anything - an opinion on our topic, an opinion about our industry,
Carol Cox:an opinion about the way that businesses run or the way that we run our business
Carol Cox:or the way that we help our clients.
Carol Cox:So what happens is that we end up having rather generic content or content
Carol Cox:that really could be plug-and-play.
Carol Cox:The people watching your presentation are not going to remember if you
Carol Cox:said it or someone else said it on whatever your area of expertise your
Carol Cox:topic is because it's interchangeable.
Carol Cox:So I'm sure the strategies that you present on are very helpful and
Carol Cox:very valuable, there's no doubt.
Carol Cox:And I want you to continue to share all of the tips and the strategies and the
Carol Cox:techniques and the tactics that you are.
Carol Cox:And I want you to add another layer onto it.
Carol Cox:And so we're going to talk about what that is.
Carol Cox:Now, a little bit about me is that I've - in addition to running my
Carol Cox:business, speaking your brand, I've been a democratic political analyst
Carol Cox:on the TV news for the past 15 years.
Carol Cox:And so I'm used to giving my opinion.
Carol Cox:I like to say that I actually get paid to share my political opinion.
Carol Cox:So I've been doing this for a really long time.
Carol Cox:Now you may not have built up a similar muscle and when I say that you should
Carol Cox:share your opinion, I don't mean that you have to share your political
Carol Cox:opinions in your summit speaking at all - that probably is not related to
Carol Cox:your topic, your area of expertise.
Carol Cox:However, I feel like as women we've been socialized not to share our
Carol Cox:opinions, very much to go with the flow.
Carol Cox:And there's a lot of reasons for that, but we don't have time to get into today.
Carol Cox:However, I'm encouraging you to start thinking about how sharing your opinions,
Carol Cox:sharing your perspectives is a way for you to establish your thought leadership.
Carol Cox:I love this quote from the writer, Anais Nin.
Carol Cox:She said that the role of a writer - and I would add speaker - "the role of a
Carol Cox:writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say."
Carol Cox:And this is really where being a thought leader comes in: is what is
Carol Cox:it that other people aren't saying?
Carol Cox:What is it that other people aren't able to say?
Carol Cox:That's where you come in as a thought leader.
Carol Cox:Because, you see, there's a difference between being an influencer, an
Carol Cox:expert, and a thought leader.
Carol Cox:And a lot of times for us, we enjoy presentations, we enjoy speaking,
Carol Cox:we're really good about our area of expertise and we tend to fall
Carol Cox:into this expert category, which is fine, but I want you to see yourself
Carol Cox:evolving into a thought leader.
So here are the differences:an influencer says to their audience, "be like me."
So here are the differences:These are the Kardashian-Jenner clan, who, you know, obviously are all over
So here are the differences:the place and they are really influencers because they have mass audiences - so they
So here are the differences:have very large audiences - and they sell mass market products to these audiences
So here are the differences:- either their own products or they are advertisers for other company's products.
So here are the differences:And so influencers are aspirational; their audience wants to be like them.
So here are the differences:They want to have the lifestyle like a Kim Kardashian: how wealthy she is,
So here are the differences:how beautiful she is, how glamorous she is, all these events that she gets to
So here are the differences:go to, the people that she hangs out.
So here are the differences:So influencers are aspirational and their content and their audience and the
So here are the differences:products that they sell reflect that.
So here are the differences:Now, most likely you are not an influencer in this category.
So here are the differences:That doesn't mean that you don't have influence over the audience, the following
So here are the differences:that you have, but for the most part, you probably have a rather niche audience and
So here are the differences:a niche product or service that you sell, which is ideal in being an entrepreneur,
So here are the differences:being in the small business world.
So here are the differences:So most likely, you are an expert, and especially when it comes to
So here are the differences:speaking and summit speaking, is that you're sharing your expertise.
So here are the differences:You're helping the audience learn something to take some strategies
So here are the differences:that they can apply to themselves.
So here are the differences:This is Dr.
So here are the differences:Tasha Eurich, who's an organizational psychologist.
So here are the differences:She's written books related to this, she's given speeches
So here are the differences:and Ted talks related to this.
So here are the differences:She's an expert in what she does, which is fantastic, and people learn
So here are the differences:from her, learn from the work that she does and learn from her books.
So here are the differences:However, here's what transitions someone into being a thought leader.
So here are the differences:Of course, Brene Brown is like the penultimate example of a thought
So here are the differences:leader because thought leaders say to their audience, "imagine with me."
So here are the differences:Thought leaders say to their audience, "you haven't thought about X yet;
So here are the differences:what would happen if you did?"
So here are the differences:Thought leaders help their audience see things that maybe they haven't seen
So here are the differences:before, or haven't thought about before.
So here are the differences:Thought leaders also put themselves into the work that they do.
So here are the differences:The reason that Brene Brown's original TEDx talk when viral - I think it's what,
So here are the differences:11, 12 years ago now - is because she very much put herself into her big idea,
So here are the differences:into the content that she was sharing.
So here are the differences:And I analyzed her talk that she brings up this idea of vulnerability and shame and
So here are the differences:our desire for connection and belonging, and then she says at some point, "oh,
So here are the differences:and I went to my therapist and I realized that this research I was doing around
So here are the differences:vulnerability and shame was very much talking to me as much as it was talking
So here are the differences:to the participants I was studying."
So here are the differences:So Brene Brown realized, "oh, like this applies to me.
So here are the differences:My story is a part of this as well."
So here are the differences:And she takes us along her journey of discovery in her TEDx talk and
So here are the differences:that's what made it so powerful.
hat's what thought leaders do:they put themselves into their content and they
hat's what thought leaders do:share their opinions and they really are like a mirror, a reflection, a
hat's what thought leaders do:sounding board for us as their audience.
hat's what thought leaders do:So let's talk a little bit about what a thought leader is, three types of
hat's what thought leaders do:thought leaders, and key questions you can answer for yourself about creating
hat's what thought leaders do:your own thought leadership content.
hat's what thought leaders do:So my definition of a thought leader is someone who has an interesting idea,
hat's what thought leaders do:especially one that hasn't been talked about a lot in their circle of influence.
hat's what thought leaders do:So in your corner of the internet, what is something that's not
hat's what thought leaders do:being talked about that much?
hat's what thought leaders do:A thought leader challenges the status quo and our assumptions about certain things.
hat's what thought leaders do:Thought leaders communicate with conviction of boldness.
hat's what thought leaders do:They inspire people to take action.
hat's what thought leaders do:And they cause people to be self-reflective and to learn more
hat's what thought leaders do:about themselves and how they relate to the world, as we saw
hat's what thought leaders do:in those examples, I just shared.
hat's what thought leaders do:So now there's three types of thought leaders that I've identified based
hat's what thought leaders do:on the research that I've done.
hat's what thought leaders do:The first type is personality driven and they say to their
hat's what thought leaders do:audience, "who do you want to be?"
hat's what thought leaders do:So these are kind of like influencers, but they're in the thought leadership space.
hat's what thought leaders do:This is Rachel Rodgers.
hat's what thought leaders do:She has a podcast and a company called Hello Seven.
hat's what thought leaders do:She recently released a book called We Should All Be Millionaires.
hat's what thought leaders do:She's definitely a thought leader in the entrepreneurial space,
hat's what thought leaders do:and she is what I would call a personality-driven thought leader.
hat's what thought leaders do:Her content is very much around her lifestyle, the way she lives, travel,
hat's what thought leaders do:events that she does, which is great because she's really setting this
hat's what thought leaders do:example of what it looks like to be a successful, wealthy black woman.
hat's what thought leaders do:The second type of thought leader is what I call research driven.
hat's what thought leaders do:And so they say to their audience, "who are you and why?"
hat's what thought leaders do:So they really cause the individual to dig in deeper into thinking about what is it
hat's what thought leaders do:that you, as the individual, are doing?
hat's what thought leaders do:Why are you doing it, and what could you possibly want to do differently?
hat's what thought leaders do:An example that comes to mind is Tara McMullin.
hat's what thought leaders do:She's the host of the What Works Podcast and the What Works Network.
hat's what thought leaders do:And if you follow her on Instagram, under tara_mcmullin, and you subscribe
hat's what thought leaders do:to her email newsletter, you'll very much see this research-driven thought
hat's what thought leaders do:leadership content that she is putting out around business and marketing.
hat's what thought leaders do:And finally there are mission-driven thought leaders and they say to
hat's what thought leaders do:their audience, "who can we become?"
hat's what thought leaders do:So mission driven thought leaders are much more about kind of a societal
hat's what thought leaders do:level versus an individual level.
hat's what thought leaders do:And they really are taking a magnifying glass and looking at society and
hat's what thought leaders do:say, what can we do different?
hat's what thought leaders do:How can we challenge the status quo?
hat's what thought leaders do:How can we make this better?
hat's what thought leaders do:And what comes to mind are the three women who started the
hat's what thought leaders do:Black Lives Matter movement.
hat's what thought leaders do:Now they are the spokespeople for Black Lives Matter, but really
hat's what thought leaders do:it's about so much more than them.
hat's what thought leaders do:They are mission-driven because they put the spotlight on others
hat's what thought leaders do:and they really want as many people as possible to take up this cause.
hat's what thought leaders do:So which type of thought leader resonates the most with you?
hat's what thought leaders do:The personality-driven, the research-driven or the mission-driven?
hat's what thought leaders do:There's no right or wrong answer; one is not better than the
hat's what thought leaders do:other, it's based on your own personality and what feels natural.
hat's what thought leaders do:So what we do here is speaking your brand is we help women entrepreneurs
hat's what thought leaders do:create their thought leadership message and their signature talks.
hat's what thought leaders do:I have a podcast called Speaking Your Brand that has been on since early 2017.
hat's what thought leaders do:We do both one-on-one coaching and group programs, and we
hat's what thought leaders do:run events like our Brave.
hat's what thought leaders do:Bold.
hat's what thought leaders do:Beyond.
hat's what thought leaders do:LIVE Virtual Summit.
hat's what thought leaders do:So I've been speaking and presenting for over 20 years - really for all of
hat's what thought leaders do:my career, plus going back into high school and college - all different types
hat's what thought leaders do:of venues and stages and audiences.
hat's what thought leaders do:And I do live video presentations, whether it's - well, this is a recorded
hat's what thought leaders do:presentations - I do live ones as well.
hat's what thought leaders do:And I'm pointing out on the screen here this arrow down to my index cards.
hat's what thought leaders do:This is like a behind the scenes of my setup for our summit here, so there
hat's what thought leaders do:are ways for you to set up where you can have your little notes there.
hat's what thought leaders do:And the thing that I forgot to do is that I was wearing my contacts
hat's what thought leaders do:in this presentation versus the glasses, which I'm wearing now.
hat's what thought leaders do:And when I wear contacts, it is very difficult for me to read things just
hat's what thought leaders do:because of the way my eyesight is, so I had these lovely index cards with my
hat's what thought leaders do:notes for my speech, yet I couldn't really read them because I have my contacts in.
hat's what thought leaders do:So pro tip, make sure if you're going to do the same, that you can
hat's what thought leaders do:actually read whatever it is that you've written for your notes.
hat's what thought leaders do:So our mission at Speaking Your Brand is to amplify and champion
hat's what thought leaders do:diverse, progressive, and purpose-driven women's voices.
hat's what thought leaders do:And this is a screenshot from our about page on our website.
hat's what thought leaders do:And so, I very much infuse my values, my worldview, my thought leadership into
hat's what thought leaders do:the content that we create at Speaking Your Brand and into the work that we
hat's what thought leaders do:do, whether it's the challenge that we ran last year called Choosing Women's
hat's what thought leaders do:Voices, or the episode that we did in the summer of 2020 after the death of
hat's what thought leaders do:George Floyd, about the work of antivirus racism as white women that we did because
hat's what thought leaders do:I knew how important it was to speak to our audience about what was going on.
hat's what thought leaders do:So here's why thought leadership matters and the impact that it
hat's what thought leaders do:can have on you and your business.
hat's what thought leaders do:So, this is one of our clients, Tammy Lally.
hat's what thought leaders do:I worked with her on her TEDx Talk back in 2017 and now has over 2
hat's what thought leaders do:million views, which is extraordinary.
hat's what thought leaders do:Most TEDx Talks get a couple thousand views, but hers was so powerful
hat's what thought leaders do:that Ted - the national parent organization - selected her talk to
hat's what thought leaders do:put on their homepage and in their email newsletter, and because of that,
hat's what thought leaders do:it has gotten this incredible reach.
hat's what thought leaders do:And Tammy really told her own personal, hard story, along with her big idea
hat's what thought leaders do:around money shame, and she had the emotional courage to do that.
hat's what thought leaders do:And we worked so hard on that talk and she worked so hard on that talk.
hat's what thought leaders do:And the result is many, many people all over the world who have been impacted by
hat's what thought leaders do:the story, by the message that she shared.
hat's what thought leaders do:We also walk our talk by telling our own own hard stories, which I did.
hat's what thought leaders do:One particular episode I remember from August of 2020 - episode
hat's what thought leaders do:185; and you can go and take a listen to that if you'd like.
hat's what thought leaders do:And the result is that others will recognize what you do.
hat's what thought leaders do:I've been featured in Forbes because of content and episodes I've done about why
hat's what thought leaders do:women speakers aren't paid the same as male speakers and what we can do about.
hat's what thought leaders do:And as I mentioned, we've done our own online events, which is
hat's what thought leaders do:our thought leadership in action.
hat's what thought leaders do:And the result has been selling out our programs and I was recognized as one
hat's what thought leaders do:of Orlando's women of the year in 2021.
hat's what thought leaders do:So this is what happens when you put your thought leadership out there is
that the results come:you attract amazing clients, you get opportunities,
that the results come:you get recognition, and I'll tell you that just staying the expert,
that the results come:just sharing strategies and tips and techniques only goes so far.
that the results come:You have to push yourself beyond that.
that the results come:So here's how to identify your thought leadership message.
that the results come:The first question to ask yourself is what's important to you that you're
that the results come:noticing is missing - noticing that's missing in your industry, around your
that the results come:topic, around the people that are in your community, within your business.
that the results come:So for example, as we did our Choosing Women's Voices challenge, because I
that the results come:noticed that so many of the nonfiction books that I was reading - business
that the results come:marketing books, as well as podcasts that I was listening to - were all by men.
that the results come:And I hadn't really thought about it until I did an audit and I looked at
that the results come:everything and I was like, "oh wow, where are all the women's voices?
that the results come:I haven't been intentional about choosing them," so then we ran this challenge
that the results come:to encourage other people to do this.
that the results come:Here's an example from one of our clients who went through our
that the results come:Thought Leader Academy, Jackie Roby.
that the results come:She is very much an advocate for diversity, equity, and
that the results come:inclusion in the travel industry.
that the results come:She's been part of the travel industry for years as a sales consultant, and
that the results come:now she's really pushing them on DEI issues because she's noticed that
that the results come:has been missing within her industry.
that the results come:The second question to ask yourself is what ticks you
that the results come:off or what gets you riled up?
that the results come:What gets you up on your soap box?
that the results come:Because if it's something that gets you up on your soapbox, it's
that the results come:something that you're passionate about, and that could be an indicator
that the results come:of your thought leadership message.
that the results come:Here's another example of one of our clients, Patty Perez, and where
that the results come:it gets her up on her soap box is organizations that don't walk their talk.
that the results come:And so she did some webinars and some events and some content related
that the results come:to that, especially last summer.
that the results come:Question number three is what makes you think, "this isn't
that the results come:right - there must be a better way"?
that the results come:Could be business practices in your industry, could be marketing
that the results come:practices, sales practices.
that the results come:Are there things going on where kind of they rub you the wrong way and you think,
that the results come:"Ugh, there has to be a better way!"
that the results come:So this is another one of our clients, Dr.
that the results come:Bibi Pirayesh, and her thing is around she's an educational therapist and
that the results come:she recognizes that when we look at learning differences that children have,
that the results come:it's really a social justice issue.
that the results come:It's not just about helping them with their learning difference, but
that the results come:it's really about social justice.
that the results come:So she has now created an initiative called the Differences, Not
that the results come:Deficit Project, and she created this out of the work that she did
that the results come:in our Thought Leader Academy.
that the results come:Question number four to ask yourself is what are people not seeing or
that the results come:understanding that you do see?
that the results come:A lot of times, the answer to this question comes out of an experience
that the results come:that you had, an impactful experience that you had at some time in your
that the results come:life where it caused you to shift your perspective on something, it
that the results come:caused you to change your mental model about the way that you see the world,
that the results come:where it's caused a paradigm shift.
that the results come:So think back to something that has happened to you that
that the results come:caused you to change something.
that the results come:And then how can you relate that journey of discovery to your audience?
that the results come:So this is another one of our clients, Jhaymee Tynan.
that the results come:She founded an initiative called 100 x 2030 to get more healthcare organizations
that the results come:to sponsor women of color within theri organizations for advancement.
that the results come:And as a result of this thought leadership message and initiative that Jamie
that the results come:has put together, she gets speaking invitations - including paid speaking
that the results come:invitations - as well as she recently got a book deal to write a book, and
that the results come:it's precisely because of putting herself out there as a thought leader.
that the results come:Question number five to ask yourself is what do we want to be known for?
that the results come:What's the lens through which you see the world?
that the results come:So there might be a lot of things that you get on your soap box about,
that the results come:or that you get riled up about, but they may not be what you want to be
that the results come:known for related to your business.
that the results come:So kind of filter that through the lens of," okay, what do you want to be
that the results come:known for related to your business?"
that the results come:So this is Joyce Spencer.
that the results come:She's one of our clients and she's also one of the coaches in our
that the results come:Thought Leader Academy, and so she calls herself the Reframe Specialist.
that the results come:She helps - especially women in their careers - reframe their gifts, their
that the results come:talents, into doing creative projects for themselves, not just for their job.
that the results come:So she has a new podcast that she launched called Reframe to Create
that the results come:out of the work that we did together.
So here's what I believe:I believe that absolutely you can be a thought leader.
So here's what I believe:And as a woman, we need you to be a thought leader.
So here's what I believe:If you Google the term "thought leader," you will see that it's mostly all men.
So here's what I believe:The images that come up are mostly all men, and we
So here's what I believe:definitely need that to change.
So here's what I believe:When you're not the default, you can see the system for what it is,
So here's what I believe:like in the Matrix, when the system wasn't set up for you and by you,
So here's what I believe:you can see the cracks in the system.
So here's what I believe:And this is what we do, especially as women, because the work system, because
So here's what I believe:the business structure, because our society was not built for us to be
So here's what I believe:part of the public sphere, to be part of the working world - I mean, we're
So here's what I believe:making do the best we can over the generations - but we can see those cracks.
So here's what I believe:We can see what needs to change.
So here's what I believe:We can challenge that status quo to make things better.
So here's the thing:ideas are contagious.
So here's the thing:Your thought leadership is contagious, and contagious in the
So here's the thing:good way, and they start with you.
So here's the thing:You putting yourself out there, you having opinions, having ideas,
So here's the thing:having perspectives, and start integrating that into your content.
So here's the thing:So, if you'd like to learn more, I invite you to listen to the
So here's the thing:Speaking Your Brand Podcast.
So here's the thing:You can also subscribe to our YouTube channel; we have lots of
So here's the thing:great episodes on the podcast, we're putting more onto YouTube as well.
So here's the thing:And so you can go and check those out, subscribe there so that you don't miss
So here's the thing:any of the content that we put out.
So here's the thing:You can also download our free workbook on thought leadership.
So here's the thing:This has question prompts in there, including some of the questions that
So here's the thing:I just went through today, as well as six steps that you can start taking to
So here's the thing:position yourself as a thought leader.
So here's the thing:In addition, you'll see that there's also our Speaking Your Brand Signature
So here's the thing:Talk Canvas Framework - these three acts that you see screenshotted here.
So here's the thing:This will help you to start thinking about putting together your own thought
So here's the thing:leadership message and integrating your personal story into that.
So here's the thing:You can get that free workbook by going to speakingyourbrand.com/workbook.
So here's the thing:I hope you've enjoyed this presentation and I hope I've given you some food
So here's the thing:for thought to think about how you can be a thought leader, how you can
So here's the thing:start integrating thought leadership content into your speaking and into
So here's the thing:other content that you do, and invite you, again, to check out the podcast,
So here's the thing:connect with me on Instagram and LinkedIn and download our workbook
So here's the thing:at speakingyourbrand.com/workbook.
So here's the thing:Thank you so much.
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